Grief without relief
Dear Readers: Today’s SOUND OFF is about the grieving process when you lose a pet.
“Dear Heloise: We recently had to have our beautiful 17-year-old black Lab put to sleep due to kidney disease. I can’t even begin to explain the grief and pain we feel at the loss of this sweet pet. I just wish people would stop saying things such as, ‘You can always get another dog.’ Yes, we can, but nothing takes the place of a beloved pet. Or ‘Time heals all wounds.’ Sure, but right now, I’m grieving the death of my dog, and I don’t want to hear things like this.
“I wish people would just listen when I need to vent about my sorrow. I don’t want to hear about the death of someone else’s pet; I’m too consumed by my own loss. Please, just let us grieve when we lose a dear pet. Listen without offering advice, and don’t brush off our loss, because it’s very real and very painful to us.”
— Mavis G., Marietta, Ga.
Send a great hint to:
P.O. Box 795000
San Antonio, TX 78279-5000
Dear Heloise: I have some rubber shelf liner left over, and I’ve found several more uses for it:
∫ I cut out a square and placed it under a sofa cushion that kept slipping forward.
∫ I put it under my pet’s bedding to keep it from sliding across the kitchen floor.
∫ I cut a small square and used it to remove pet hair from my furniture.
∫ I wrapped a few delicate things in the liner before shipping them by mail.
— Loretta W., Springfield, Mo.
Dear Heloise: As a nurse, I’ve seen many casts put on people who’ve broken a bone, and there are a few things we normally tell the patient to help them avoid injuries. First, don’t use a wire hanger or any sharp object to scratch an itch under the cast. Try sprinkling baby powder under the cast. If a cast gets wet, use a blow-dryer set on low heat to dry the cast. You also can use an old sock or knit cap to keep your toes or fingers clean and warm.
— Lois G., Livonia, Mich.
The very last drop
Dear Heloise: I generally buy 32-ounce jars of mayonnaise, and the last inch or more is so difficult to get out. I discovered that a frosting spatula does the job easily.
— Leslie W., Alexandria, Va.
Dear Heloise: I make a lot of jigsaw puzzles. When I first open the box, I pour all the pieces into a colander and shake it over the trash bucket, thus getting rid of the paper sawdust.
— M.Z.S., Santa Ana, Calif.
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